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My Process To Overcome Anxiety - 1,000+ Results

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Danita Young

CBT | NLP Coach | Health Specialist

Key Takeaways

If you’re tired of talk therapy, medication, or surface-level hacks that don’t stick…

You’re not alone.
You’re also not broken.
You’ve just been aiming at the wrong target.

Let me show you what anxiety actually is—
And how to overcome it in less than 1 hour a week.

First, You Need to Know This:

Most anxiety “solutions” treat the symptom…
But the symptom isn’t the problem.
The root is.

You’ve probably tried acupuncture, breathwork, or chiropractic work.
They may help for a moment, but then it comes back.

Because true anxiety relief isn’t just physical.
It starts in your brain.

Your Brain’s 3 Survival Traps

These are the systems running in the background—keeping you in survival mode even when there’s no actual threat:
1. Amygdala – Your Fear Scanner
Always on alert.
When it’s overactive, even a delayed text feels dangerous.

2. Basal Ganglia – Your Pattern Looper
It runs your habits and reactions.
If it learned chaos or fear, it repeats them automatically.

3. Reticular Activating System (RAS) – Your Attention Filter
It controls what you notice.
When wired for survival, it blocks the good and amplifies the bad.
These systems aren’t broken.
They’re just doing what they were trained to do.

These 3 parts create your internal loop of overthinking, panic, and spiraling thoughts.
And those thoughts send one of two signals to your nervous system:

  • Contraction = fear, tightness, stuck

  • Expansion = peace, clarity, ease

Anxiety is simply the signal that you’re in contraction.
Your system is screaming, “I don’t feel safe.”

Your Body Wants to Heal—But It Can’t in Survival Mode

Everything your body is doing makes perfect sense.
That doesn’t mean you’re stuck with it.
You can retrain your nervous system.
You can teach your body safety.
You can shift into green.
And when you do, everything begins to change:

  • Digestion improves
  • Sleep deepens
  • Energy returns
  • Anxiety fades

Not because you managed the symptoms better—
but because your body no longer needs to create them.

How to Reclaim Control (Without Burning Out)

You don’t need more coping tools.
You need nervous system retraining.
Here’s how it starts:

  • 🧠 Recognize the zone you’re in
  • 🌬️ Interrupt old patterns with safety-based cues
  • 🛠️ Rewire your brain to stop seeing daily life as a threat
  • 💪 Build true resilience—not just tolerance

This isn’t “positive thinking.”
It’s nervous system alignment.
And once your body feels safe, it does the rest.

My Process to Overcome Anxiety for Good

Watch the video for a visual and the best explanation. Here’s how we fix it:

Step 1: Understand the “Box”

Imagine your full potential is inside a box.
Peace. Purpose. Expansion.

But this box is surrounded by walls built by:

  • Fear (amygdala)

  • Familiarity (basal ganglia)

  • Limiting beliefs (RAS)

  • Unprocessed pain (grief, loss, trauma)

These walls aren’t you.
They’re just outdated protection systems.

*The points where you want to expand;
more potential,
achieve your goals, etc,

those collide and hit the;
contracting thoughts,
limiting beliefs,
and fears.

Those points are where anxiety exists
and where we need to break those apart
in an easy way so you are anxiety-free
(watch video)

Step 2: Rewire Your Anxiety Response

You don’t need to eliminate anxiety—
You need to redirect it.

Anxiety is energy without direction.
It builds when your system senses a threat but doesn’t know what to do.

Instead of suppressing it or spiraling with it,
you give it a job.

When your brain understands there’s a clear path forward,
it calms down—because uncertainty is what fuels anxiety.

Clarity dissolves chaos.
And when you guide the anxious energy with purpose,
your nervous system shifts out of panic and into power—fast.

And often, that shift happens fast, sometimes in under 5 minutes.

I give you the tools that you can take with your for a lifetime
so that you become anxiety-free for life 


Step 3: Dissolve the Walls

One by one, we neutralize the patterns in your nervous system.
Not with affirmations.
Not with surface tools.

But by accessing the part of you underneath the fear—
The part that already knows peace.

You’ll feel the shift from contraction to expansion.
And that’s when the body heals, the mind quiets, and clarity returns.

This can last a lifetime

🔍 How We Track Real Progress — So You Know It’s Working

This isn’t guesswork or “hope-it-helps” therapy.

This is the only system that measures and tracks your anxiety relief every step of the way.

Each week, we assess the energetic weight stored in your nervous system—
The hidden stress behind your anxiety, physical symptoms, and emotional exhaustion.

You’ll see real data that shows your nervous system shifting from contraction (stress)
into expansion—a parasympathetic, healing state.

This is how we know we’re hitting the root.

This is how you know it’s working.
Not by chance. By evidence.

Because when you can see the proof,
you build the confidence to keep going—
and finally release anxiety for good.

Important Note

Anxiety is not who you are — it’s a temporary pattern your body learned, and with the right tools, it can unlearn it, rewire it in an easy way without meds, talk therpay, or surface fixes.

Ready to Overcome Anxiety For Good?

With a proven, trackable system—lead with calm, show up fully, and take back control.

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